Bryan,
I think my wife might be going crazy. Ever since she took up writing, she acts like a lunatic. One moment she's weeping over how terrible her book is and how stupid she was to ever think she could be a writer; and the next she's dancing a jig in the living room because she just wrote the most brilliant paragraph ever. She dreams of becoming a published author, but slugs me if I mention to anyone that she's a writer. And by the way, is it normal to throw a party when you receive your first rejection letter?
I'm proud of her and want to be supportive, but I'm not sure what to do when she goes into one of her "spells."
Sincerely,
Confused in Portland
Confused in Portland,
Writers pour so much of themselves into their writing that it often becomes a very personal experience. As a result, each pitfall and victory is felt very close to the heart, often causing bizarre behavior. I recommend these tried-and-true coping mechanisms used by writer-spouses everywhere.
- Walking out of the room.
- Rolling your eyes.
- Gritting your teeth.
- Raising a single eyebrow in disbelief.
- Going out to eat.
- Taking a long drive.
- Walking the dog.
Which brings up another important piece of advice. It is vital that you neither commiserate with your spouse nor point out any logical errors or fallacies in their thinking. That will only antagonize them more. It's best to simply stick to the list mentioned above until things level out.
All the best,
Bryan
I think that is a really funny post.
ReplyDeleteMy husband loved this! Great post Susan (and Susan's husband!)
ReplyDeleteGreat advice. All spouses of writers need to read this. :)
ReplyDeletelololol... Maybe I should save these and print them out as a guide for all future dates.
ReplyDeleteOr maybe not. Don't want to scare them off... ;)