In Which I Live a Dream and Become a Real Writer

I have this secret dream that all of us Prosers get together and do OSC book boot camp this year. It would be amazing, and I can tell you that for sure, because last Saturday I had a tiny taste of it.

Amazing!

 I went to LTUE with MaryAnn and Susan. That, for your information, is what Susan actually looks like. I had no clue. It's kind of funny, but all of you Prosers have become like sisters to me, and we haven't met before. It didn't feel to me like we were meeting for the first time.

 I felt the same way when I met Sabrina, except with better lighting.

Open invitation for the last three Prosers I haven't met yet,( Sarah, Tricia, and Melanie), let's go to lunch!

 We had TOO much fun at LTUE. We laughed, and learned, and talked about books and publishing and met real life authors. It was a book nerd's paradise.

It was my first convention, and I think I'd never gone to one before, because I had a million excuses not to. But mainly, I didn't want to have to commit to this dream I have, because whenever I say I'm a writer, I have a secret fear that people will read my words and see my soul and say, "Ick".

 But mostly I didn't want to be weird. It's not normal for a mom and Mormon woman to daydream about what life would be like to live on a moon of some far off galaxy. It's not normal to drive my kids to school, and be whispering bits of dialog, or world building, or be thinking what if. It's not normal to worry about if people will think less of me for publishing a book on my own, or to look at a sixteen year old boy and think he'd make a cute hero. It's not normal. I'm officially not normal.

 I know this, but I didn't want to be the not normal that goes to scifi conventions. That was my own personal line in the sand.

But I've crossed it now, and I liked it.

What I took away from the conference, more than the inspiration from Susan and MaryAnn on how to fix the climax of my book, or hearing brilliant people say things I've thought, and things I never would have, that gave me a new path for my own ideas, or even the ...fact... that Dave Farland discovered both Twilight, and Harry Potter, was the clear and secure knowledge that I'm not the only weirdo out there.

 There were hundreds of men and women who got the Dr. Who references, and the spoke of some inspiration they got from one of my favorite books, and a ton of books to my TBR pile to inspire me later, who were amazed at the idea of goats in space, or the importance of the sewing needle and how it affected our society.

The amazing thing, is that there are thousands, maybe millions more of us out there who didn't go to LTUE, but who have the same dream. That might be intimidating number to think of, if you see all those people as competition,  but I don't. I've read a thousand books that have taught me the same singular message I learned from LTUE. I'm weird, but I'm not alone.

I'm weird like you.

Now, I'm off to fix my climax.

Happy writing, happy reading, happy life,
~Sheena

The Power of Profanity.

Do what mom says, not what mom says.

Full discloser, the first word my five month old heard was a swear word, and it was coming from the cheap seats.

But other than when I’m in the middle of natural childbirth, or about to be in a car crash, or really angry at my husband, I hardly ever swear. I can go years between swear words.

I choose not to swear on a daily basis, because then I when I do swear, it’s clear as all heck that I’m serious. 

My husband knows to go do the dishes… stat.

Swearing is like using an exclamation point. If you exclaim too much, then people will think you are insane. Nobody is that enthusiastic in real life. 

Holy pow, batman!

I really think so!!!!!

(shuddering)

The sad thing is, that the more you see the exclamation point, the more you don't see it. And then, the less you see it, the more likely it is that you too will sign things on facebook with a billion exclamation points, or even worse... the colon parenthesis that is a smiling substitute.

:)

Creepy.

Swearing is just like that. The more you hear it, or see it, the more likely it is that you too will start using it. That's just a fact that all mom's know, which is why when you write for MG, like I do, you have to watch the swearing. Moms buy the books. And not all mom's swear at their five second old infant, like... some people do.

Orson Scott Card agree's with me. He wrote that the more you swear, the more you limit your audience.

After all, you don’t see a High School or a Community Theater putting on a David Mamet play.

On the other hand, Stephen King writes about the importance of writing honestly. How do you write dialog that rings true, if you are embarrassed to use words because someone might not approve of them? People do swear.  If we want to create characters that are true, that are real, that become friends to the reader, then you should write them as truthfully as you can. If a character really would swear... then that character should swear.

I think the answer is to just write the first word that comes to mind. And then in editing, consider if the word is worth the price.

There's a cost, of course for losing the honesty that the first drafted word gives, but consider that sometimes the first word that comes to mind is difficult to spell, and if you are like me, you edit it out anyway.

Like the above somewhat humorous picture implies, most words could be substituted with another without any dire consequence to the story or to the world.

Mark Twain said, “The difference between the right word and the almost-right word is the difference between the lightning and the lightning-bug.” And, to an extent, I agree with that quote a hundred percent…

For certain words.

But not all words are created equal. Not all words are as powerful as lightning, or as magical as a lightning bug. Some words, like the word THE, or AND, are invisible words. They are not powerful, because they are used so often your eyes glaze past them unaware.

Could you tell me how many times I’ve used the word THE in this post? I could, but I’m not going to count them all. I have books to read.

Do you really want to diminish the power of your words by using your strongest words too often?

Swear words are automatically powerful words. These shame-filled words are instruments of rebellion. These words aren’t just made of letters, they are made with memories of the taste of soap, or shadowed hallways, or explosive fighting moments. These words have power. These words can add to the power of your story even BY NOT USING THEM, or by using them sparingly. 

Consider, for example a character who never swears, perhaps a soldier who is teased by the men at arms for his schoolmarm vocabulary. What if you spend some 40,000 words establishing this character who doesn’t swear, and then put him in danger and then let him swear. 

Once.

Swear words are just words. But they are also tools, and as a writer all words are your tools. Some words are like hammers or screwdrivers, and are fit for everyone, and others are more like chainsaws, and should be used carefully, and for a reason.

I think every word should fight to be there. Some words don’t fight fair, so it’s our job, as writers, to keep the words in line.

Just don’t tell my mom if... let's be serious...WHEN I swear.

~Sheena